“The girls that get chosen for the basketball team are the
ones who look good in their uniform” I am candidly informed by my niece (14). Sadly, there are high schools fifteen years later (plus-minus) that
still exist in a time warp even worse than the one I attended.
Now that is still tragic. When it is no longer about the sport and even
there out on the basketball court, it is about how you look, I wonder what
women will be doing in twenty years, if anything at all? When will it be about what you can do and not
what you look like?
Yep, the change addict is an ugly duckling, you’re thinking... so many
words, so few pictures; there must be a reason...
Imagine if both genders functioned like this. A
whole world of very pretty but entirely useless people. A booming beauty industry, but that is about
all there is. The pursuit of beauty the
be all and end all. Lots of plastic
surgery and the endless pursuit of the fountain of youth.
Yep, that’s it, she’s one of those, ‘nice’ girls. You know all personality, not too much
else...
If women were placed in a ‘separate development’ social
construct, I fear that many would be living in shacks, well because engineering
would be beyond our intellect or at least our interests, the roads would
collapse and never get repaired, because well... we wouldn’t want to break a
nail.
I understand that given biology, the survival co-dependency
between men and women ensures that this scenario will remain a case of gross speculation and little
far-fetched.
But isn’t that what women have been sold? Check ‘women’s
magazines,’ it’s not all that far off.
...Oh dear, even worse, the change addict must almost be a man... must
be... No ‘good-looking’ woman would talk like this...
I cannot help but ask myself is this really the fruit of the hard
earned women’s suffrage movement and the generation of women who determinedly
burned their bras in their quest for equal rights? So women can now vote, but
their value still comes from how they look not what their accomplishments are,
what they stand for or who they are.
Amelia Earhart was the first woman who flew solo across the
Atlantic, but just how good did she look in her stilettos?
What saddens me most is that places our value as women
externally. It is based on someone else’s
approval and the question is: Why would
you give somebody that sort of power over you?
This culture of ‘haters’ needs to go. Talk about debilitating.
...Yep, must be a man...
The inability to see value, talent and potential in another
human being says more about the person seeing than it does about those being seen. It says that they are unable to see intrinsic
value in themselves and in order to make themselves a little bit bigger, they
have the need to look down on other people and make them small.
That attitude also guarantees nothing will be accomplished
that is bigger than we are.
And no, I am not a man, I have a biological daughter. Science may be good... but not yet that good!
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